Why counselling?
Emotions are barely explored throughout life, in most cases we acknowledge their presence in intense situations as falling in love or being a mother or becoming depressed or anxious.
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Usually people go to counselling as a last resource, when they feel they are suffering from a life experience. it's also possible to start with counselling before feeling overwhelmed.
What is Counselling?
Counselling is a talking therapy that provides a safe and confidential space for you to explore your emotions, thoughts and behaviors with a professional so you can develop a better understanding of yourself and others.
A Counsellor will help you find your own solutions – whether that’s making effective changes in your life or finding ways of coping with your problems.
What happens in Counselling?
What to expect in your first Counselling session?
Each counsellor has their own way of starting therapy but a first session should always cover:
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Introductions
Your therapist should spend a few minutes introducing themselves and explaining how they work. You can ask them about their qualifications and experience, your therapy or anything you’re not sure about. Your therapist will want to make sure you feel at ease by sorting out basic things like where you would like to sit, and whether you use first names or are more formal.
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Assessment
Your therapist may ask you if you would like to give a history of the problems you’re experiencing. They might want you to complete some forms, or go through information they’ve received about you, such as a letter from your GP. Or they may just ask you to ‘tell your story’. It’s important that you feel you’ve had the opportunity to tell the therapist about what’s troubling you.
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Contracting
Your therapist should agree the terms, or contract with you, about how they will provide their services. This may be either a verbal agreement or a printed document for you both to sign.
This first session is important for making sure that you feel comfortable with your therapist and their way of working. You don’t have to continue with a therapist if you can’t relate to them or don’t feel safe.
How to get the most out of your Counselling session?
You’ll get the best results from your therapy if you’re open and honest with your therapist and say how you’re really feeling.
Your relationship with your therapist is very important. If you’re to work effectively together, you should feel safe and able to take risks by disclosing and discussing sensitive issues. That includes being able to give them honest feedback on how you feel about your therapy and how you’re working together.
There are many different types of therapist and therapy, so if you’re unsure about your therapist or their approach, you can look for another one.